Hey people, this is going to be a quick one because I have a meeting in 15 minutes with a very antsy client, but I just had to say this.
You see, I’m happy.
Okay, now some of you may be
hissing rolling your eyes and wondering: “So..what? What is so wonderful/earth-shattering/life-changing about that?”
Let me make it easier – I just had a car accident 2 hours ago, BUT I’m happy.
See why I think I need to share now?
I’m not going to bore you with the details, but not only was I thoroughly scared
shitless, I have also lost 2 hours of my morning, argued until my mouth hurt, busted my left headlight, took apart somebody’s fender, paid over 50 000 FCFA for damage caused (that’s about GBP 70, USD 110, not the kind of money you can toss out in the blink of an eye) and to top it off my heel is wobbly.
But when I look at the situation, I think :
1. Two months ago, I was in a hospital bed;
2. Someone could have been injured or died;
3. It’s only money, plus it’s meant to be spent;
4. Ei bad as ei bad, I go waka emptyfoot (If push comes to shove, I’ll go barefoot);
See? I’m counting my blessings, people.
We all have a period in our lives where it has felt like everything is going wrong, where we just wanted to give up on our hopes and dreams and aspirations, abandon whatever struggle we have going on, and let what will happen, happen. However, sometimes all we need to do is look for the silver lining in the cloud, because I assure you IT EXISTS!
What’s making you unhappy? Is it your marriage (or lack thereof)? you job? finances? family pressures? even physical hang-ups? No situation is completely hopeless. Take a step back, calm down and assess the circumstances objectively. Identify what went wrong and if you need to, accept the part you played. Then, GET OVER IT! Stop wallowing in guilt/self-pity or simply reminiscing about what would have, could have, should have been. Map out a way-forward, whether it is taking a different route, or considering the incident to be a learning experience and moving on.
Happiness does not walk around looking for a home. It’s within us, always. All you have to do is prioritize. Realize that things are hardly ever as bad as they seem. Count each and every one of your blessings one by one. And of course, look for the silver lining in every situation!
Happy August, people!
NB: By the way, it’s my birthday in 5 days. Yippeeee! *dancing azonto in hiding* 😀